My stepson, 17, stays with us on weekends, but recently my 14-year-old daughter begged me to stop him from coming over. She wouldn’t explain why, which made me uneasy. One day, while grabbing laundry from his room, I found a strange pile of socks near his bed. Underneath, there was a family photo, an old

My stepson, 17, stays with us on weekends, but recently my 14-year-old daughter begged me to stop him from coming over. She wouldn’t explain why, which made me uneasy. One day, while grabbing laundry from his room, I found a strange pile of socks near his bed. Underneath, there was a family photo, an old school picture of my daughter, and a card she had made for her dad years ago.

I didn’t know what to think. None of the items were harmful, but it felt odd since they weren’t his things and he’d never shown sentimental side before. When I asked my husband, he dismissed it, saying maybe our son just liked keeping family memories close. Still, the secretive way he collected those items unsettled me, especially given my daughter’s discomfort.

I gently asked my daughter again, and she said he hadn’t done anything specific, but sometimes stared too long or asked strange questions about our life before he arrived. She didn’t feel unsafe, just uneasy. When I confronted my stepson, he shut down and later texted me that he feels like an outsider in our home, lonely and unsure how to fit in.

Realizing he wasn’t creepy but just struggling to belong, I asked my husband if his son could stay with his mother for a few weekends while we figure things out. Now my husband is upset, my daughter is quiet, and my stepson won’t answer my texts. I’m unsure if I did the right thing or made things worse—and I’d really appreciate your advice.