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Day: April 22, 2025

All I ask is a few minutes of your time to hear my ordeal. Months after providing free childcare for my stepdaughter, I made a choice to refuse when things went too far. Now I need you to tell me — was I really wrong for not giving in to her bizarre demands and refusing to babysit her child? Retirement was supposed to be my time to relax, travel, and maybe take up gardening. Instead, I became “Grandma Daycare,” a title I wore proudly. I’d retired when my first grandchild was born, and over the years, I’d babysat all five of my grandchildren, both from my kids and stepkids. “Grandma, tell us the story about the dancing bear again!” little Tommy would beg, his eyes sparkling with excitement. “No, the princess one!” Lily would counter, climbing onto my lap. Those moments made my heart swell. Their laughter was worth every second of exhaustion, even on the hardest days. It wasn’t always easy, but I loved it. Whether it was finger painting, bedtime stories, or comforting a feverish toddler, I poured my heart and soul into caring for them. My days were busy but fulfilling. “You’re a miracle worker,” my son James once said, watching me juggle three kids while baking cookies. “I don’t know how you do it.” “Love,” I replied simply. “Love makes everything possible, dear.” Alice, my stepdaughter, was the last one to have a baby. Her daughter, Ellie, was born when my schedule was already full. I watched my 18-month-old grandson Monday through Friday and handled the older kids during summer breaks. I wasn’t sure I could take on another child, but I was open to helping where I could. Unfortunately, Alice and her boyfriend, Sam, made that almost impossible. Alice and Sam had always been a bit high-maintenance, but I wasn’t prepared for the three-page list they handed me when Alice was just ten weeks pregnant. “We’ve put together some rules,” Alice said, her voice overly casual. “If you’re going to babysit my baby, you’ll need to agree to these.” I skimmed the list, and my jaw nearly hit the floor. “I can’t cook? I can’t have more than one other grandchild over? And what’s this about my cat? Muffin has to stay out of the baby’s rooms, even when your baby’s not here?” I looked at them incredulously. “This is… a lot.” Sam folded his arms. “It’s for our baby’s safety.” “Safety?” My voice rose. “I raised three children, helped raise two stepchildren, and have been caring for four grandchildren without a single incident. What exactly are you implying about my capabilities?” “Times have changed, Ruby,” Sam said dismissively. “There are new studies, new recommendations —” “New recommendations about cooking?” I interrupted, my hands trembling with anger. “About having siblings and cousins around? About cats that have been part of the family longer than you have?” “Mom,” Alice pleaded, “we just want what’s best for our baby.” “I’m sure you mean well,” I said, handing the list back, fighting to keep my voice steady, “but this won’t work for me. You’ll need to find other childcare.” Their faces fell, but I stood my ground. Months later, Alice called me in a panic. Her voice cracked with desperation. “Mom, our sitter canceled last minute. Can you watch Ellie tomorrow? Just for the day?” I hesitated. “You know I won’t be following those rules, right? I’ll provide safe and appropriate care, but I won’t be micromanaged.” Alice sighed. “That’s fine. We just really need help.” That “one day” turned into four months. While Alice was somewhat tolerable, Sam was a nightmare. Every time he picked Ellie up, he’d make snide comments about Muffin, the number of kids I had over, or whether I’d cooked that day. One afternoon, as I read to Ellie and her cousin, Sam arrived early. “Well, well,” he sneered, “I see we’re breaking rules again. Two kids at once? How dangerous.” I held Ellie closer, feeling her tiny fingers grip my shirt. “Sam, if you have concerns, we can discuss them like adults. But not in front of the children.” He scoffed. “I guess we don’t have a choice but to put up with this for now.” And the other day, he said, “I guess you’re happy you won, Ruby.” By Sunday nights, I’d started dreading the week ahead. The joy I once felt watching my grandkids was overshadowed by Sam’s constant negativity and Alice’s relentless questioning: “Did the baby cry? Did you change her diaper twice? Did you feed her?” I had raised kids on my own — did they really think I was new to this whole motherhood thing? Some days were worse than others, but I let it slide, chalking it up to them being “new parents” trying too hard to get everything right. Thanksgiving was the breaking point. I’d told Alice and Sam well in advance that I’d have all my grandkids over during the holiday break. But Sam wasn’t happy. 473754979_931071995889711_6382244571891165784_n-860x988

All I ask is a few minutes of your time to hear my ordeal. Months after providing free childcare for my stepdaughter, I made a choice to refuse when things went too far. Now I need you to tell me — was I really wrong for not giving in to her bizarre demands and refusing to babysit her child? Retirement was supposed to be my time to relax, travel, and maybe take up gardening. Instead, I became “Grandma Daycare,” a title I wore proudly. I’d retired when my first grandchild was born, and over the years, I’d babysat all five of my grandchildren, both from my kids and stepkids. “Grandma, tell us the story about the dancing bear again!” little Tommy would beg, his eyes sparkling with excitement. “No, the princess one!” Lily would counter, climbing onto my lap. Those moments made my heart swell. Their laughter was worth every second of exhaustion, even on the hardest days. It wasn’t always easy, but I loved it. Whether it was finger painting, bedtime stories, or comforting a feverish toddler, I poured my heart and soul into caring for them. My days were busy but fulfilling. “You’re a miracle worker,” my son James once said, watching me juggle three kids while baking cookies. “I don’t know how you do it.” “Love,” I replied simply. “Love makes everything possible, dear.” Alice, my stepdaughter, was the last one to have a baby. Her daughter, Ellie, was born when my schedule was already full. I watched my 18-month-old grandson Monday through Friday and handled the older kids during summer breaks. I wasn’t sure I could take on another child, but I was open to helping where I could. Unfortunately, Alice and her boyfriend, Sam, made that almost impossible. Alice and Sam had always been a bit high-maintenance, but I wasn’t prepared for the three-page list they handed me when Alice was just ten weeks pregnant. “We’ve put together some rules,” Alice said, her voice overly casual. “If you’re going to babysit my baby, you’ll need to agree to these.” I skimmed the list, and my jaw nearly hit the floor. “I can’t cook? I can’t have more than one other grandchild over? And what’s this about my cat? Muffin has to stay out of the baby’s rooms, even when your baby’s not here?” I looked at them incredulously. “This is… a lot.” Sam folded his arms. “It’s for our baby’s safety.” “Safety?” My voice rose. “I raised three children, helped raise two stepchildren, and have been caring for four grandchildren without a single incident. What exactly are you implying about my capabilities?” “Times have changed, Ruby,” Sam said dismissively. “There are new studies, new recommendations —” “New recommendations about cooking?” I interrupted, my hands trembling with anger. “About having siblings and cousins around? About cats that have been part of the family longer than you have?” “Mom,” Alice pleaded, “we just want what’s best for our baby.” “I’m sure you mean well,” I said, handing the list back, fighting to keep my voice steady, “but this won’t work for me. You’ll need to find other childcare.” Their faces fell, but I stood my ground. Months later, Alice called me in a panic. Her voice cracked with desperation. “Mom, our sitter canceled last minute. Can you watch Ellie tomorrow? Just for the day?” I hesitated. “You know I won’t be following those rules, right? I’ll provide safe and appropriate care, but I won’t be micromanaged.” Alice sighed. “That’s fine. We just really need help.” That “one day” turned into four months. While Alice was somewhat tolerable, Sam was a nightmare. Every time he picked Ellie up, he’d make snide comments about Muffin, the number of kids I had over, or whether I’d cooked that day. One afternoon, as I read to Ellie and her cousin, Sam arrived early. “Well, well,” he sneered, “I see we’re breaking rules again. Two kids at once? How dangerous.” I held Ellie closer, feeling her tiny fingers grip my shirt. “Sam, if you have concerns, we can discuss them like adults. But not in front of the children.” He scoffed. “I guess we don’t have a choice but to put up with this for now.” And the other day, he said, “I guess you’re happy you won, Ruby.” By Sunday nights, I’d started dreading the week ahead. The joy I once felt watching my grandkids was overshadowed by Sam’s constant negativity and Alice’s relentless questioning: “Did the baby cry? Did you change her diaper twice? Did you feed her?” I had raised kids on my own — did they really think I was new to this whole motherhood thing? Some days were worse than others, but I let it slide, chalking it up to them being “new parents” trying too hard to get everything right. Thanksgiving was the breaking point. I’d told Alice and Sam well in advance that I’d have all my grandkids over during the holiday break. But Sam wasn’t happy.

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